The idea for the film started when I heard a podcast about a married gay person named Bar. He said those years into their relationship, he felt that his gayness had disappeared. He described how suddenly a house, family, wedding and children made them ‘normal’, and he no longer feels gay except for of the fact he married a man. I chose to deal in this film with my fear of losing a queer, gay element, which is a significant part of my identity. Will I lose my partner and the queerness we had at the beginning of the relationship when we will have children and start a family? How our relationship will look if we will become ‘normal’? The film named “Betrayal” because it deals with queer betrayal. What does cheating look like in an open relationship between two men? It is about ego, inability to communicate and hide things from your partner. It is about men that can only communicate through sexuality and body.